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Volunteer spends time with
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Boys play with doctors' gloves
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Evacuees are getting ready to move to a
Waco Texas shelter
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Claire, head volunteer at Operations Centre,
manages Command post at Baptist Child and Family Centre
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Volunteers look at art
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Marie poses for the camera as she awaits answers about
FEMA money
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| Stephanie, age 26, and 8 months
pregnant, draws a crying flower but gives no explanation
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Rita evacuee spends time
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Hurricane
Rita: A Daily Journal - continued
Barb Dorrington
Wednesday September 28/05
We spent most of the day at Levi today, as this is the shelter with the
most needs. At some point, we did want to go to Lackland, especially to
have a chance to meet Terry’s grandparents but we realized that
a decision had to be made because going to both places was tiring and
if we were totally exhausted, we wouldn’t be much use to anyone.
Every day seems to be like a new day at the shelter and the Rita people
at the shelter are just now getting their contacts made with FEMA. Some
of the evacuees are becoming volunteers at the shelter, commissioned to
play ball outside with the kids or just spend some time playing. Really
none of the kids in this shelter are in school so Barbi was very happy
when we showed up at the shelter early today, even though she wanted a
break from her kids, she came to the table and stayed close. I notice
that the parents really like us seeing the children but we need to be
visible to them. They especially like us taking pictures because it is
quite possible for those with flood and severe wind damage not to have
any salvageable pictures remaining. Barbi proudly announced that she was
a quilter and her mandala was beautifully colored and very well done.
We learned quickly this morning that there was now a volunteer coordinator
named Claire and after meeting her, we both realized that she was keen
to organize things for everyone and that she was the one behind recruiting
some evacuees to help those just coming in. People are still coming in
by the busload, so the numbers seem to be going up even though people
also leave. One family strolled by (we worked to the side of the main
room today where all the beds and families are) and told part of their
story and said that as a family of nine (at least three children and one
very elderly woman who was wheelchair bound) had all sought shelter in
a small closet in their home in Orange and their house literally came
down around them. In their area, it had been tornadoes and there had been
no water. The mother mentioned that she had been keeping a journal and
said we could come looking for her to read her first account story. James,
the man who does great cartoons worked on some more cartoon art today
and showed a sense of humor by drawing one of the volunteers as to how
he might look twenty years later. James brought his wife Ashley to the
table as their young baby slept and she finally started talking (she had
avoided us until now) about how a tree fell on their truck and they lost
all their possessions that they had tried to save. Ashley was relieved
that her mother had the first oil painting she ever created because that
would have been lost too. Ashley and James both talked about how they
would give advice to someone else that you need to get to a safe place
sooner, or at least prepare sooner if you intend to stay.
The medical team was in more evidence today and looked more organized.
There was a different, almost more comfortable mood for the evacuees too---lots
of phones in the phone room to call local and long distance numbers, lots
of new clothes like socks and shirts, free bus rides every hour to downtown
or to the Wal-Mart. There was also more security today with police officers
at the door with metal detectors. It is so easy for Barb and I to get
in with our BFCS volunteer badges because no questions asked. The head
of the medical team knows us now and may send us more people to talk to
and we will, as if there isn’t enough work, but it is good work.
I wish we had more time for one on one and we have been trying that by
going to the beds or “homes” of people and chatting. Sarah,
with husband James and baby Mia were doing well and she did find out her
mom and dad were safe…I got the biggest hug ever… she was
thrilled and by the end of the day, started to help us manage the art
table. Another helper, Jared, works for a local radio station and drew
cartoon like characters for many kids…they were lightening up today…more
laughs…more jokes…more settled.
Toward the end of our day, Vicky, a single lady in her thirties came by
to draw. She started to work on a mandala but wanted instead to do a big
thank you card for the fire fighters (you can tell them because they all
wear fairly heavy green pants). She came from Beaumont and ended up leaving
in the middle of the night to Ford Park, supposedly a shelter about an
hour away …and it took 10-1/2 hours to get there that night. As
she talked, a loud siren went off for at least ten minutes…but she
never really missed a beat…just kept talking about how she was desperate
to go to the bathroom and didn’t want to end up on the highway having
to go in front of all the other cars. So many other people have talked
about being turned away in shelters or makeshift shelters and were placed
back on the road again, some without fuel.
One of the other people I talked to today was a Red Cross volunteer and
she took me to a quiet room deep in the factory. There she let out her
story about how she had been working for a month without relief and how
she hated how people were divided by FEMA and Red Cross as either “Katrina
people” or “Rita people.” After she finished talking,
we came out and saw David (the man who was on the bus for five days) and
she said she knew where he could get a part-time job and moving cars up
for auction. He was thrilled and seemed to appreciate the help.
Barb and I are doing a debriefing with three staff members tomorrow. We
were also asked by Claire, the volunteer coordinator to develop a protocol
for the “listeners”-- people who are coming from the church
and want to do some good by just listening. Boy, there are so few people
to just listen, so this is our protocol so far.
After that, it is way past bedtime. Goodnight.
One more thought. It is so hard to know what is the right or wrong thing
to do for questions beyond the typical debriefing. There are several hundred
people in this Levi shelter and everyone is a perspective client or client
family group. Sometimes I feel like the person throwing the starfish back
into the ocean, but it is making a difference to as many as twenty or
thirty people in here. The “listener” idea was out of desperation.
They are not debriefers, they are just good people wanting to help. But
when asked, do we not give any guidelines? It is a dilemma so that is
what you will see on the next page the guidelines for helping the volunteers
listen. These are just quick ideas that Barb and I came up with.
Protocol for LISTENING in the Shelters
1. Introduce yourself and your name.
2. First questions to ask:
“Where are you from?”
“How long have you been here?”
“Were you there during the hurricane?”
3. The above questions are often enough to get a willing person talking
without much effort at all. This should tell you their readiness to talk.
4. If they do not seem receptive, your BACK OFF response should be to
ask if there is anything that you can get them or do they need anything
and then help them with that. After helping, say something like “take
care” and do move on around the room.
5. If it IS acceptable to continue, then they will likely just keep talking.
6. Only ask questions if the person stops talking and do not interrupt.
7. Always maintain good eye contact with the person as they tell their
story, nod your head to indicate you are paying attention at appropriate
times, show interest.
8. Remember to have supportive body language and reflect back to the person
with out exactly parroting their words.
9. Prompting questions can be along who, what, where, when and how line.
“What was the wind like?” “How high did the water go?”
“Who was with you in the room?” “What time was it?”.
Think of yourself as a detective of sorts.
10. After the story is told, ending questions can be….
“What scared you the most?”
“What worries you the most?”
“Where do you get the strength to go on?”
“What is it you wish for now?”
11. Do NOT ask how the person feels. Do NOT give advice. Do NOT act like
a therapist.
12. DO be a witness and let him or her tell it like it is. DO follow your
common sense and know when to back off. DO leave them with a positive
thought as the evacuees are in survivor mode. “You’re really
brave to have gone through all that.” “You’re a very
strong person.” “You are very brave to tell your story.”
Thursday September 29/05
We got an early start today so we would be early for our debriefing meeting
with the three staff members who have been doing many extra hours helping
at the shelters run by BCFS. We actually arrived too early, so we walked
to a corner store that was a dollar store and got a few more supplies.
Along the way, we saw a beautiful painted wall of art and took a picture
of it. This is such a beautiful city and these shelters are in large abandoned
buildings, so quite a contrast. This is a team of four people –
one supervisor and three staff, and their normal job is to run a middle
school program with most doing after school programs. All the staff members
were very talkative and essentially did talk about feeling overworked,
tired and that the system and the clients both did not appreciate their
efforts. Many times, they felt the evacuees treated them like they were
there to serve rather than to help. The worst thing for one of them was
the shock of seeing the shelter for the first time…coming into the
very large room and seeing all the beds and the people and realizing that
they all lived there under one roof like that.
Truly, that was very overwhelming for me too as I think back, but how
quickly I accepted that this is how they live and within hours was walking
comfortably around the place myself. I mean, I still can’t get over
how many evacuees wanted, and I stress, wanted their pictures taken to
document this poignant and difficult time in their lives…and we
have the pictures to show but we have nowhere to send them to because
they don’t have addresses anymore. Barb was able to get one address
for Carina’s family, but that was the exception. For so many others,
it was about starting their lives over again. And that wall of pictures
in the shelter was a testament to their lives.
This takes me to the worst part in the day. A call came in from Richard,
that Levi was being dismantled today. In fact, as it turns out, the evacuees
were told to get up at six and get breakfast because they were all on
their way to Waco to a veteran’s hospital and within about six hours,
450 people were moved out of Levi-- possessions and all-- into buses.
This was a government decision. When Barb and I got there, many people
were in the buses just sitting and a number were also on the lawn, waiting.
I talked to James, the man in his twenties with wife Ashley and a young
baby and his first question for me was whether I had been able to find
him the Lion King coloring book he wanted. Actually, we did go to a few
stores but there were no Lion King books to be had but I did pick up three
coloring books that had great animal pictures and I gave those to him
with a pack of pencils. He expressed some minor frustration that they
were moving, but his wife Ashley pointed out that they would be able to
have their own rooms in a closed up Veteran’s hospital and that
had to be a good thing.
No one milling around the grassy area seemed that upset, but inside the
beds were almost all dismantled and many different emergency type crews
were there cleaning up and getting things packed, and the police and FEMA
were well represented. The head of one medical emergency unit, came over
and we talked about how she felt her team should be debriefed too, but
the one guy she was with said that a good debriefing to him was a beer.
As he walked away, she said that all of them really did need a good debriefing,
but she would not likely be able to convince them. Other staff seemed
lost, even the police and there were many very sad people, not just evacuees.
The medical emergency person told me that some people after hearing the
news at first, were grabbing her arm saying they didn’t want to
go. Within a few hours, I saw none of that. I walked into the games room
where the art wall was and the pictures were untouched… no one had
removed them to take with them. It was decided to take down the wall because
for now, it would be an empty building and better to go with us than to
go in the garbage. I told staff to take the ones that were near and dear
to their hearts and Barb and I collected the rest. We both wrestled with
keeping the wall up, because maybe it would be good in new evacuees came
in (Levi has been closed down three times in the last month and them reopened
for new evacuees). Yet, with no guarantee it would open again, we took
the pictures. I got one last picture of the wall, a few of us took down
the pictures, and then I tool a picture of the empty wall. That was, after
all, how everyone was feeling…empty.
As we left Levi today, some of the evacuees had animals on their laps
and it was only then I noticed the many animal cages in some FEMA vehicles.
All along, there was a room that housed caged animals but I never heard
any animals…I mean the place is huge. At least the evacuees had
their animals. Some people aren’t so kind to the evacuees, saying
all they want is three “hots” and a cot, but I wonder where
we all would be if everything was taken away from us.
Tonight, Barb and I went to the Riverwalk area here for a break. I never
noticed so many rich people before. Note to self: Don’t take what
I have for granted.
Friday September 30/05
For the last two mornings in a row, I have been woken up by a 5 a.m. alarm
clock in the vacant room next door. I complained yesterday and was assured
that the alarm would be turned off…so now I am grumpy….and
for whoever is reading this right now, you are probably all glad I am
here instead of there! Or, I should say y’all are glad that I am
not there. It turns out I have a type of British accent here...didn’t
know that! We are about to go and have lunch with Richard for a debriefing
of our work to date. I did consider driving to Waco to see what the evacuees
really were getting as far as accommodations but it is like driving from
Windsor to Toronto and there are still Katrina shelters open here. I think
I am better off staying here. They don’t have a lot of kids in them
but they do have talkative adults. I have realized that in a mass tragedy
like this, some conventions go out the window for sure and I need to also
spend time with adults and seniors too. I won’t get to train volunteers
in the ‘listening package’ now because Levi is closed, at
least for now, but I think it is a great package when there are not enough
trained counselors in a major crisis. So, on my way to clean up and go.
Back later.
Well, it has been a long and good day. Barb and I spent a lot of time
at the Operation Command Centre and debriefed our debriefing with the
three staff members with Richard. Most staff members in the agency have
been going full-tilt since September 2nd and with the onset of Rita, things
have been more pressured because now there are both Katrina and Rita evacuees
here. Richard talked about some of his experiences in Sri Lanka and if
you have a weak stomach, don’t read the next two lines, but he noted
that he was there a week after the tsunami hit and there was still the
stench of dead bodies saturated into the sand, even though they had been
buried for at least a few days at that point. Richard mentioned that his
first visit there was emergency mode but he has been twice and the healing
has begun. Since the tsunami, Richard’s agency BCFS, has foster
homes there operating so now they have a link. It is quite exciting, yet
so debilitating when staff are “at it” for four weeks and
more at a time. Currently, there is no relief in sight. Just today in
the paper, there was concern that 12000 more evacuees may be headed to
San Antonio and it is unclear who will be getting the FEMA contract for
that. For me, it is so hard to imagine the magnitude of it all…
so I have worked hard at making this the best personal and PD experience
ever…and I think that I have detailed it in pictures in an amazing
way. Christina, the supervisor of the three staff, wants us to send out
pictures to her so she can put them to music in a slide show. She says
she needs to do this, as it is therapy for her. Richard also looked at
some of the pictures and wants them too. They really are great...I mean
for what they are. It is human strife and human survival in pictures and
art.
After Richard took us out for a Mexican lunch as a “thank you”
for our work (it was the BEST Mexican food I have ever tasted), he drove
us back to the operations center in his truck. I was sitting alone in
the back. San Antonio is all highways everywhere you go and there are
access roads beside them with turnarounds if you make a mistake. So, the
road has many lanes….I heard a weird screech and there in the lanes
on the other side of the highway is a white car that has gone completely
out of control and is screeching sideways back and forth hitting cement
abutments…and as it slides backwards a motorcyclist drives right
into it (he has no choice, it was that fast), his bike stops cold and
the cyclist somersaults over the hood of the car several times and plops
on the ground. The car is still slamming back and forth across the lanes
sideways and the cyclist literally drags himself up and drags away from
his spot…and if he hadn’t done that, the car would have hit
him again. Well, we are on the other side of the highway about four lanes
away and there is no way to stop. But, it is a peak time of day so many
others witnessed the accident…but we drive on …no choice.
I am like screaming “oh my God”, Barb isn’t in a good
position to have seen anything and Richard sees the cyclist also get up
by looking at his rear view mirror. So, we don’t really have a choice,
we just drive on, just a bit more traumatized.
Richard gave us some nice t-shirts too for working and he has been so
kind and inviting all of these days. I will be on my own now because Barb’s
plane leaves in the morning. When we get back to the hotel, I decided
to go over to Lackland Baptist shelter because I believe there are new
evacuees arriving from a few of the other small shelters closing. Well,
there are a few but most people from Katrina now can get around easily
by bus and the place only has about thirty people. I notice a ten-year-old
girl who is by herself. Her name is Joelyn and she tells me that she is
actually the daughter of a volunteer, but I also learn that she comes
a lot while her mom is volunteering so I figure why not recruit her for
the cause. We sit and read the Brave Bart book about kids and grieving
and trauma. Joelyn was so excited that she had this new book and was also
excited that now she could be the reader for kids as they came into the
shelter. So, you just never do know where you will get help to carry on
some of your work (don’t get any ideas….a 10-year-old still
can’t replace me on the job, although she was sure a lot sweeter
than I could ever be).
Melkyer joins us for dinner…it is dinnertime at the shelter, but
I am eating late tonight with Barb. He is an older gentleman with a lot
of wisdom. He lives in New Orleans and he figures that his fourth floor
apartment didn’t get water damage so what is all this hue and cry
about not going back…after all, in his world, people die every day.
He tells me that at least 90 per cent of the people in this shelter from
Katrina are living better now than they ever were and he thinks that this
is the best time of his life. He has made a lot of new friends from all
over the world and asks me could I have ever foreseen a time that we would
have sat together rubbing elbows because he can tell that most of the
volunteers come from a different side of life…he says he loves how
he is treated by the volunteers… we treat everyone with respect
and he personally has never had that. Melkyer reports that his parents
were illiterate but they were smart and he figures the Lord will get him
through. He eats slow as he imparts all his wisdom and he enjoys the spotlight…for
him this is new and he loves it. I ask him though about other evacuees
who cannot find loved ones, who have partners and young families to worry
about raising, that for them it is not just “three hots and a cot”.
For Melkyer, there is no reason why people just can’t get on with
life. He believes these people live in chaos and crisis and violence everyday...the
hurricane wasn’t even that bad, and the flooding can be cleaned
up. But, I notice he eats really slowly and he talks a very long time
about not being traumatized. I hope to see him tomorrow.
When I am about to leave, I am pleasantly surprised to see David, Stephanie
and their baby at Lackland. David gives me a big hug….it is so good
to see him and he is smiling. He says it is nice to see a familiar face
(it doesn’t take too long to realize that attachments can be made
over just a few short days). I had really worried about them getting on
the bus, especially after their five-day ordeal. Stephanie is smiling
from ear to ear too, and she has had a great checkup with the doctor.
Her baby is still about two weeks off and they will name him Demarcus.
David casually mentions that ever since he “spilled his guts that
day” to us; he started to feel better, like a real survivor. He
had hoped to stay in San Antonio and did not want to get on the Waco bus,
even if they were offering private rooms in the Veteran’s Hospital.
David says that he made his ‘escape” when the “green
pants”, the fire fighters, woke him up early and said “we
are taking you to Lackland” and they virtually had to sneak the
small family in (according to David)…the government doesn’t
like it when their orders get crossed. I’m going to try to do more
debriefing with Stephanie tomorrow. She is opening up, but David reports
she is still pretty quiet. I left her my best colored pencils, the kind
that also can erase, some paper and I’m on my way. It has been a
long rewarding day.
Saturday October 1/05
Hi all. Well, just a short note to say that I just learned that the Rita
evacuees going to Waco ended up in an abandoned Wal-Mart without sufficient
toilets or bedding. The paper said that these people overcame Rita, the
evacuation, and now bureaucracy is going to kill them. More on that later.
There are 75 new evacuees coming into Levi from Kelly, the large public
shelter of Katrina evacuees, so when I stopped in, they said please stay.
I need a shower and I am on my way back. They have only a skeleton staff!
More on that later, too.
The day began and ended with seeing weird things happen on the highway.
It still unnerves me to drive around here, with all the fast highways.
I feel like a beginning driver and it takes a ton of energy to be constantly
vigil for the 20-minute drive to work. I don’t mind that I am 20
minutes away because I can clear my head but the traffic is always pretty
crazy. After driving Barb to the airport (it was sad to see her go but
she was ready to return to normal life), I am driving toward the command
center and discover that a car is turning left from the other street in
front of me like an old lady. Then I realized I couldn’t even see
the driver. On closer inspection, a young man is slumped at the wheel
and his car cruises into a grassy field-like area? Do I stop? Well, Richard
gave me a cell phone and I decide that the best avenue is to call 911.
The emergency services tend to come pretty fast around here, and to be
honest, I am worried about being alone and this being some kind of trick.
It is very early in the morning. Levi has hardly any people at all there
as it turns out once I get there. It has been taken over by the American
Red Cross to help evacuees from other shelters such as Windsor Park and
Lackland to get their checks from FEMA. New shelter rules have emerged,
there are more police evident, and even yellow ‘’do not cross”
tape keeps people out of the main shelter room.
At the front door sits a young woman by the name of Marie, who has come
from Port Arthur. She told me she has been at Levi for four days and has
been told that she can now stay at Levi. This is a really good thing because
the morning paper is full of the evacuee story about how the Levi people
were transported to Waco and ended up in an abandoned Wal-Mart. The same
people that Barb and I and countless other volunteers nurtured after the
trauma of Hurricane Rita. I think about Barbi and her mother and her two
kids, and how angry she would be at feeling victimized again. I also think
about Sarah with the big smiles from yesterday with her baby Mia with
asthma and how devastated she would be not to be treated with kindness
and respect. I think the plan is to get the evacuees to the VA hospital
pretty quickly, but even a few days will be very traumatizing. I am sickened
by the newspaper report that when the evacuees arrived, they were forced
to pile their belongings in one huge pile to have it inspected for contraband.
When they went to collect their searched belongings, things were missing
and it appears that other evacuees may have rifled through things. I can
attest to the fact that nothing…and I do mean nothing…was
touched by the evacuees at Levi when they were here, but I know that they
are a marginalized group and perhaps when treated like animals and without
respect, they act with less respect for each other. Multiple traumas.
I am hopeful that something that Melkyer said earlier is true, that these
people have been challenged many times and they can survive the worst.
This intrusion into their private belongings does, in many ways, seem
at least part of the worst of mankind. On another level, I understand
the need for safety, but isn’t there a more humane way?
Back to Marie. Marie survived the hurricane and did stay throughout the
hurricane and for four days after. For her, she recalled seeing many damages
due to wind. Her own home, mostly brick, survived reasonably well except
for her windows and she has come to Levi because she is taking care of
her son’s father, a man that she is no longer romantically involved
with, but she pointed out that someone has to help him. What really amazed
her about the hurricane was that the bricks on her neighbor’s house
were actually dislodged by the high winds and many bricks were on the
ground. The hardest part for her is having her children scattered among
relatives and she still hasn’t heard about some of her more distant
relatives. I told Marie that if I can find out anything, I would be glad
to let her know. The head medical unit nurse told me that, from her perspective,
it would have to be over a number of volunteer’s bodies if any more
evacuees are moved to Waco. I can see now how easy it is to feel attached
to the evacuees I meet. There is very little anger expressed, and at the
same time, such human kindness and tenderness by people on all levels.
Inside, I spent time with Patience Desiree, a three-year-old girl from
Snake River, near Liberty, TX, and she is thrilled to do some drawing.
Patience immediately drew a tree on her car and one on her house. Patience
could remember that when all the winds hit, she could hear a little boy
screaming and screaming. She also drew a picture of her birthday party.
It appears to be quite a theme that when a young child is allowed to free
draw that a happy picture of some kind tends to emerge at the same time
almost like a balance. Raymond, Patience’s father, supported Patience’s
story about the hurricane except that Patience has thrown in that she
saw a fire too, but that was another unrelated incident and a very small
fire, at least to him. Raymond was been listening to Patience and I talking
and drawing and he detailed how he is fighting alcoholism and a violent
past. Not only has he been prone to violence, but also his uncles used
to use him as the ball in most of their sports games. Raymond stated he
has been in jail for his violence and he is worried that his medication
will not always work. He is also worried that, in this situation, he will
not always have his medication. We talked about the hurricane but when
asked what the hardest part has been for all of this, he recalled a time
two years ago when his father-in-law accidentally ran over his wife’s
ankles and feet with a car. Just before I left here, Raymond told me he
prefers to go by Wayne, and he also introduced me to his wife, Laughter,
actually named after a distant relative.
Going over to Lackland, one of the first people I met was Mashunda, who
asked me who I was because she has seen me around talking with all the
people. When I told her, she asked if I would speak to her parents, David
and Olemphia, as they had stayed at the New Orleans Convention Centre
for four days and saw great violence and dead bodies. I asked her to please
introduce me, but she says that they weren’t here right now because
they have gone to get a bed. I am hopeful that I will get to meet David
and Olemphia over the next few days and I assured her that I would look
for them.
Trying to get my journal sent off on the shelter Internet isn’t
too difficult because many evacuees do not have the Internet usually and
they don’t like being on it…it is frustrating for them. Ernest
was just to the side of the computer finishing his telephone call and
we got talking. Ernest lived at almost ground zero where the New Orleans
levee first broke. He was sitting in a wheelchair because his feet are
infected from the contaminated water, even a month later. Within minutes,
he found himself in 25 to 30 feet of water and he was forced to swim for
his life with his stepbrother on his back. His stepbrother has no legs
and Ernest found a piece of plywood and a tire that then acted as a raft.
The water rose very quickly and Ernest recalled seeing many dead bodies
in the water. Ernest figured that the gushing water had unexpectedly trapped
them. It really unnerved him to see dead bodies in cars, and again he
figured that those drivers and passengers never had a chance, the water
came in that quickly.
Ernest had a dog called Pebbles, a dog he loved very much. Pebbles couldn’t
be rescued. As Ernest and his brother stayed on the roof of another house
for safety, he could hear Pebbles barking in the distance. She barked
for hours. By dawn, the barking ceased and Pebbles was never seen again
by Ernest or any of his neighbors. Ernest talked about his dog with great
sadness, and then changes the topic suddenly toward the attempt to reach
safety again. Ernest reports that he was relieved that he did not have
to go to the Convention Centre because his step-brother in a diabetic
and they were allowed to take a truck right to the hospital because the
step-brother had been without insulin for four days. Ernest wants to give
something back to the children in the shelter and he has been drawing
cartoon figures for some of them. He actually is quite talented and is
delighted to have his picture taken with the drawings. I could tell Ernest
was done talking but he does return long enough to tell me that he really
knew he was in trouble when he saw that his fridge was floating in just
a matter of seconds of the water hitting the house. At the end of the
night, Ernest sought me out to ask about a pencil sharpener. I gave him
one as well as his own fabric markers so he can make a cartoon figure
on a shirt for David’s son.
Although it is getting quite late, I realized that Terry’s grandparents
were over by the side of the room. Their names were Edna and Allen and
they were from the St. Bernard Parish area of New Orleans. Edna is 90
years old and Allen is 87 years old. Both of them credit Terry with saving
their lives. They recalled that the water came in very quickly into the
house, and rose about thirteen feet. They had decided to stay in New Orleans
because they owned a two-story house and figured the water wouldn’t
rise more than five or six feet. Terry literally had to swim up the steps
to save them by prying the bars of the windows open (she literally ripped
them off the wall) and then breaking the windows.
Terry also helped save the family next door who lived in a single-floor
house and were trying to chop through the roof. Edna talked about how
surprised she was to see the fridge on its side and that is when she knew
she was in trouble. For both of them, their biggest worry now is to find
a place to live but they would like to go to Slidell where they have a
daughter. The worst part was getting rescued because it was so hard to
get in and out of the boat. Then Edna recalled how hard it was to get
into the helicopter at one point in their rescue. She laughed as she talked
about this part being on CNN. She hated getting into the contaminated
water and still has a rash from it. Allen recalled how one of the worst
parts was when he had to wear the same clothes for four days as they went
from one place of shelter to another until they arrived at Lackland. Edna
said the highlight of her journey was when she could go shopping at the
“clothing store” in the shelter and she didn’t have
to pay for the clothes. Literally, Allen and Edna do not have one single
possession left except for their wallets. They both also seemed to have
a real sense of humor when asked about how they would get to Slidell…Edna
pointed out Terry had just bought a truck and they really couldn’t
go in their truck since it sat in their garage back home and they figured
it would just a little water-logged.
The most discouraging part for Edna was when they realized FEMA will pay
for an apartment but not for assisted living and both of them figured
at their ripe ages, they had earned it. The advice both would give is
to leave, GET OUT, and don’t second-guess yourself. They did have
a lot of warning but at the same time, Edna didn’t know if she could
stand the bumper-to-bumper traffic in regard to the escape from the city.
Edna and Allen have decided not to even go back and look at the house
because she figures she would have a heart attack just seeing it. Edna
has lived in that house 34 years, and married Allen 16 years ago. Allen
said that the house had sheet rock walls and lots of insulation, so he
can just imagine the mess it has made. They were thrilled I wanted to
take their picture and even hammed it up a bit for the pose.
What I thought was going to be a short day ended up to be very long but
very hear-warming. As I made my way home, I came across another HUGE traffic
accident again on the other side of the road, this one being a large pile-up
of at least ten cars. Little London looks better all the time.
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